Groups starting
May 5th and 6th, 2026

When your mom is gone, life is different

Mother loss can shape your identity, relationships, confidence, and sense of safety in ways that are hard to explain, especially when the loss happened years (or decades) ago. You may look “fine” on the outside, but inside you still carry longing, grief, anger, or an ache that returns during milestones, holidays, parenting moments, health changes, or ordinary days when you simply want your mom.

Motherless Daughters

If you’ve ever thought:

  • “Why does this still hurt?”

  • “I feel different from other women.”

  • “I don’t know where to put all of this.”

  • “I’m doing life without the one person I needed most…”

When a daughter loses a mother, the intervals between grief responses lengthen over time, but her longing never disappears. It always hovers at the edge of her awareness, prepared to surface at any time, in any place, in the least expected ways.
— Hope Edelman, Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss
  • Motherless Daughters is a therapy group for women who want a steady, compassionate space to process mother loss with others who truly understand. This is not a place to “move on” or minimize what happened. It’s a place to speak honestly, feel supported, and learn practical ways to carry your grief with less isolation and more self-trust.

    In group, we make room for the whole range of emotions mother loss can bring, sadness, anger, guilt, relief, longing, numbness, confusion, and love. You don’t have to explain it here. You don’t have to be “strong” here. You can just be real.

  • I lost my mom when I was 7, and that loss reshaped everything, my sense of security, my family dynamics, and the way I learned to move through the world. Mother loss isn’t something you simply “get over.” It becomes something you learn to live with, and it can show up in surprising ways at every stage of life.

    For many years, I carried parts of my grief without language for what I was experiencing. Hope Edelman’s Motherless Daughters helped me name what I’d carried for so long and made me feel understood in a way I didn’t expect (hopeedelman.com). Claire Bidwell Smith’s work deepened that support with compassionate, practical insight into how grief evolves over time (clairebidwellsmith.com). Their writing brought me solace and support in ways I never imagined, even after all these years, which is a big reason I’m passionate about creating a space where other motherless women don’t have to carry this alone.

  • I’m a Certified Mother Loss Practitioner trained through Hope Edelman and Claire Bidwell Smith (see their directories at hopeedelman.com/mother-loss-practitioners and clairebidwellsmith.com/grief-resource-directory). My approach is grounded in attachment and family systems, because mother loss doesn’t happen in a vacuum, it impacts how we connect, how we cope, and how we experience ourselves in relationships.

    In group, we’ll honor your story while also building tools for regulation, self-compassion, and meaningful connection.

The Details

  • Who this group is for

    This group may be a fit if:

    • You lost your mom at any age (childhood, teen years, adulthood)

    • Your grief feels “quiet,” complicated, or lonely

    • Milestones or transitions feel tender (parenting, relationships, holidays, major life changes)

    • You’re tired of feeling like you have to “be okay”

    • You want community with women who get it without over-explaining

    • You are welcome here whether your relationship with your mother was close, complicated, estranged, or somewhere in between.

  • What we'll focus on

    While each group evolves with the people in it, common themes include:

    • The long-term impact of mother loss (identity, belonging, confidence)

    • The “secondary losses”

    • Anger, guilt, relief, and the emotions we’re told we “shouldn’t” feel

    • Parenting without your mom

    • Attachment patterns, relationships, and learning to receive support

    • Anniversaries, triggers, and how to prepare for hard seasons

    • Creating meaning, steadiness, and connection

  • Group options, location, and cost

    Online - Zoom

    All of Texas

    Tuesdays, 7:00–8:15 PM

    In person

    3818 Spicewood Springs Rd
    Suite 300
    Austin, TX 78759

    Wednesdays, 7:00–8:15 PM

    Cost:$50 per session

Prefer individual therapy instead of a group?

Some seasons call for a private space that’s entirely yours.

I also offer individual therapy for mother loss, where we can go deeper into your personal story and tailor support to your specific needs and pace.

In individual sessions, we may work on:

  • Grief that feels delayed, complicated, or “stuck”

  • Anxiety, sadness, or numbness that resurfaces during transitions

  • Attachment wounds and relationship patterns shaped by early loss

  • Motherhood/parenting grief and the longing for maternal support

  • Boundaries with family members and navigating estrangement or conflict

  • Triggers around holidays, birthdays, anniversaries, weddings, births, and aging

If you’re not sure whether group or individual therapy is the best fit, we can talk it through during a consultation.